Love — Simple Yet Complicated


Felt like posting this before I go to sleep. First of all, let me dig Yao’s quote on it. *goes back to Yao’s blog*

Originally posted by Amane
Sometimes when you look back on a situation, you realize it wasn’t all you thought it was. A beautiful girl walked into your life. You fell in love. Or did you? Maybe it was only a childish infatuation, or maybe just a brief moment of vanity.
Henry Bromel, Northern Exposure, The Big Kiss, 1991

Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you have to be involved with them. Love is not a bandage to cover wounds.
Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, February 16, 2004

Right, that makes sense. 🙂

Anyway, let’s get down to business. Somewhere in my past, present and maybe future I will surely rant/emo/b*tch about my love life. Conform desu. It’s what people do, you know, rant about this and that (trust me, everyone does it, be it direct or indirect way). Humans are just so-called ‘intellectual people’ with no sense of gratitude. They won’t appreciate what they have, and when they lost it, by then they’ll start to regret. When they don’t have it, they’ll bitch for it, when they really have it, they don’t want it (been there, done that, tested and proven)

Love can be simple… Yes, a girl tells that she likes you, you tell her you like her, go for a date, and there’s a relationship. Complicated love scenarios? Plenty, 3rd party influences(been there), fell in love with your best friend’s (boy)girlfriend and sometime crashes other people’s relationship (done that as well, somehow), two timing, LDR, not your (boy)girlfriend but practically both of you are (been there done that as well), etc. Man, it’s gonna give you a headache. Well, at times it’s not like you want to get your ass into this kind of situations, you just somehow tripped into a pool of mud and got sucked down to the floor. That’s it. Worst case scenarios — Sex partners (Oh god, one of my friends… =_=), etc.

Love makes you change, in a way. Be it spiritually, mentally, or physically. I’d experience that before, and it’s scary. Love is scary at the first place, as you do not know what it’ll bring to you (memories or traumas), what you will turn out as (a better or worse person), and you can’t really tell what is love. Yeah, eventhough she’s not a hotchick or whatever, that ‘click’ makes you like/love her. It might be a simple and silly infatuation, which might be short-term period, but at times stuffs just can’t get easier.

When you fall in love, you’ll always think of him/her… When you see him/her name, you’ll smile (if he’s/she’s selected for something, or maybe he’s/she’s present to the class, ), when you receive her message without opening it yet your heart beats irregularly, sometimes fast and sometimes slow, you’ll be anxious if she/he doesn’t reply your messages, if you can’t see her you’ll have that weird feeling and you can’t sleep at night by just thinking of him/her, you’ll be nervous when you see him/her in the face, when he/she touches you you’ll feel something ‘special’ and very sweet (beating, pinching etc does count [Been there done that as well]), you’ll do almost anything for her (some people goes to the extreme [Thank God my rationality still kicks in the right time]), you don’t mind to do anything just to protect him/her, do silly stuffs to make him/her happy, just to see a smile on his/her face. You couldn’t give a shit to what people look at you two, as long as you get together with him/her it’s more than enough and so on. The list goes on from Arctic to Antarctica.

So, when you get together, shit happens, and problems spawn like mushrooms after the rain. Both parties will face pressure and sooner or later sparks of ‘argument’ will definitely come out. As the song goes, after 3~5 years the feeling’s gone, and both parties will definitely find a way to breakup just to get things done.

Finally, you broke up, you’ll rant to whoever you know, even God. You’ll ask God what had you done to deserve this, yada yada. Some will even blame their ex for the reason to breakup. You’ll be emotionally challenged, unstable, and will do a lot of silly stuffs. You’ll take sometime to recover from it, and for some extremists they’ll probably face a long term trauma. That’s sad, and I though that love should make everyone happy…

You see, even a simple elaboration like this makes things so complicated until you don’t know where to end it. Anyway, I’m tired, and I guess that it’s gonna be better… At least for me.

Love is superficial — How true it is, for me to know for YOU to find out.

Love might be simple, love might be complicated, love might be wonderful, love can be destructive, love saves your life, and takes your life away.

Just a short rant.

©eXPeri3nc3 2007. All rights reserved. *Love is superficial — How true it is, for me to know for YOU to find out*


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2 Responses to “Love — Simple Yet Complicated”

  1. thejuggernaut Says:

    Love is not superficial… lust is…
    people get together when they are in lust….
    they STAY together when love is there…
    other wise its just an infatuation…
    so NEVER say love is superficial as you have never experienced it before…(in a romantic way… i will not hear any excuses)

  2. experi3nc3 Says:

    You’ll know when you been through it. =)

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